You are a Precious Being, Worthy of Gentle Treatment and Self-Care

I am so grateful for the precious group of yogis with whom I share yoga on a regular basis, both collectively and individually.  They inspire me and lift me up in ways of which I am sure they are unaware.  Very much I am humbled by my good fortune.  Having them in my heart, the following came to me yesterday.  I am sharing because this feels like the perfect response to the situation.

white-tail-deer-1-1245316-639x503Be gentle and caring with yourself at the deepest level.

If you aren’t gentle and caring with yourself, it is likely no one else will be gentle and caring with you, either. And if you aren’t cared for, you will not be at your best to carry out your life’s work or to care for others.

Remember, the world is a beautiful place full of love and nourishment. It is us and we are it!

But everywhere we look is disease, natural disaster, hatred, jealousy, fear. These overwhelm our ability to see the life-affirming nature of things and sadly, we tend to react in kind.

Increasingly, science is uncovering evidence of our genetic bias toward negativity. Some of us received a double-dose of the survival instinct due to what we or our ancestors faced earlier in history. The more we have this tendency, the more we need to emphasize positivity for it to even have a chance of being part of our experience.

Caring for ourselves, we honour the precious beings that we are. We grow our roots into a stable source of replenishment and begin to trust again that we will be okay, no matter what. When we are in that place of security and well-being, we can simply BE.

When we are simply “be-ing”, we flow with life. We are able to hear that wise voice or feeling inside that tells us the truth. We know the perfect response to every situation. We don’t see ourselves as separate from others.

This is how we rediscover and cultivate peace, within and without.

Spring Class Registration Now Open

Yes, spring is in the air here in Calgary.  Now is the time to break out of the cocoon and lighten up. . .New Life

YogInsight is offering regular classes and a monthly series of Monday-evening 2-hour retreats, as well as private sessions, that may be just what you need.

Spring 2016 weekly registered classes will start at the end of March / beginning of April.

  • First Monday nights of the month will feature 2-hour, retreat-style classes.  Sign up for one, two, or all three.
  • Wednesday night’s Yoga Balm for Backs  is a popular class with many regulars, so register soon to hold your spot.
  • Tuesday and Thursday mornings we delight in caring for ourselves with gentle, energy-shifting yoga and fellowship.

Click on any of the blue links for more information.

If a private session for yoga, wellness coaching, spiritual direction or Reiki seems more appropriate, I would be happy to talk with you about any of these.

FYI, we’ve been noticing that the downloadable registration forms weren’t working too well for everyone.  So you can contact Lonnie who will email one to you.

How Does Yoga Work?


A big question. I can’t pretend to even touch the surface of this huge topic in a simple and quick blog post. Likely I will write more about it in future. However, I do think I’d like to advance a few ideas.

Probably everyone with an interest in yoga has asked themselves what makes yoga effective, and recently, a variety of people from outside the traditional yoga circles, especially medical and psychological researchers, have been trying to discern the mechanisms involved. In the last few years there has been a big move toward evidence-based practice when it comes to health and wellness and that generally is a good thing in my opinion. But there are some drawbacks to trying to extract the potent pieces from a larger system and still have the same effects.

One of the strongest theories on how yoga works is that it increases vagal tone. Vagal tone basically is a fancy word for the part of the nervous system that is involved in the relaxation response or its parasympathetic branch, measurable by markers such as heart rate variability. When vagal tone is high, digestion improves, hearts function optimally, and moods stabilize. Studies with specific populations such as people who suffer with post-traumatic stress disorder, depression and epilepsy have provided support for the theory that yoga has a beneficial effect on vagal tone. See this link if you are interested: But significant questions remain – for instance, in the studies, what practices (specific postures, breath work, chant, etc.) were included in the yoga, did respondents have to practice regularly, what bearing did the healing relationship amongst teacher and the students have on the results? And if the relationships in a yoga class accounted for a sizeable part of the benefit, does that mean we should give up yoga classes and just hang around in pubs with other people?  Add to that the sizeable problem that improved vagal tone cannot be the only main benefit of yoga because it does not fully explain improved bone mass, balance, and attention, amongst other things.

pose9Some yoga poses known to evoke the relaxation response are not accessible to all students. Take shoulderstand, for instance. Shoulderstand is known in yoga circles as “full-body pose” or Sarvangasana in Sanskrit and also is often called the “mother” or “queen” of asana. B.K.S. Iyengar, the late yoga master known best for his meticulous attention to alignment and use of props, wrote in Light on Yoga, “The importance of Sarvangasana cannot be over-emphasized. It is one of the greatest boons conferred on humanity by our ancient sages. . . . It is a panacea for most common ailments . . . glands . . . blood flow . . . body gravity . . . soothing effect of the pose on the nerves,” and so on. I think I would add that the attention to detail, cultivating the courage to invert, perseverance to perfect a position, challenge to knowing where the body is in space also count as mechanisms or benefits to working with a pose like shoulderstand.

Lately, though, shoulderstand has come under much scrutiny for the potential danger it can pose to the cervical spine and associated structures in susceptible individuals. Some would say we should just not bother practicing it. I tend to argue that while we should not blindly practice some rigid version of the pose in a ritualistic fashion as is the case in some schools of yoga, we also should not just abandon it without considering what we might be sacrificing in the process. There are a variety of ways it can be practiced and obtain most of the benefits. But we can lose some of the advantages, too. If we decide to practice a variation on shoulderstand, we should know how we will replace the effects displaced by the change with some other yogic practice.

Last week in a retreat I attended, I heard a complementary health provider and occasional practitioner of yoga state that, in the interest of safety, if yoga teachers wanted to stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system (Iyengar’s soothing effect of the pose on the nerves and probably the vagal tone stimulation about which I was writing at the beginning of this post), we should avoid questionable or controversial yoga poses such as shoulderstand and simply have our students lay on their backs with an eye pillow over their closed eyelids. I had to work hard at not being insulted or appearing incredulous. Like an eye pillow would be enough, if mobilizing the relaxation response could be that simple! We know that inability to relax is one of the biggest scourges of human life. For a significant proportion of the general population, laying still with no distractions is nigh impossible (perhaps more impossible than doing shoulderstand!). And to add to the difficulty of such a flippant “solution”, another retreatant with a professional understanding of disorders of the eye cautioned against having much of the weight of an eye pillow on the eyeballs. Her reasoning might be different, but this article sheds some light on some of the issues with using an eyebag:

Reductionism such as implying that a simple remedy taken from the mainstream could substitute for a “problematic” yoga pose or even yoga practice generally seems to be a simplistic attempt at avoiding the real issue at hand – that we do not fully know how yoga gets the results. As a dear teacher I know says, “It’s not that simple!” The larger practice of yoga includes a whole set of attitudes and philosophies such as those described in Patanjali’s Yoga Sutras. We are called to practice with zeal (tapas, abhaysa) and detachment (vairagya) while also avoiding harmful (ahimsa), ego-building (asmita) activity in order to build desirable qualities such as discernment or discrimination (viveka).

Personally, I have found that the real benefits of yoga come when I faithfully, compassionately and mindfully return to my yoga mat day after day with curiousity about what I will find out, relinquishing any need to experience specific results. Perhaps this type of mechanism cannot be quantified.